DCE Message of the Month

Patience has never been a strong suit of mine. I have an idea in my mind of how long a project, or errand should take and when that time limit is exceeded the frustration level begins to rise. Impatience for me is about unmet expectations, and a need to feel like I have more control over a situation than I actually do. It’s not just about the carefully laid plans, it’s about the timing. Timing is everything. So many times in life I want to speed things up. Speed up growth, speed up moving onto the next project, speed up losing weight and getting in shape, speed up the days when my boys seem to have woken up with the explicit intent to torture and pester each other as much as possible. I want to speed up getting through whatever the current trial is, so I can move onto the “good stuff”. I think that I know not just what I need, but when I need it. Some of my biggest frustrations haven’t been with God’s plan, but the timing of His plan. “Hey God, this is not a good time for you to want me to do this,” or “hey God, this sounds great, so let’s speed this thing up.”

I always come back to the story of Abraham when I feel the impatience growing. God makes a promise to him that he, and his wife will have a son, and then they wait, and wait, and wait. At one point they decide that God’s timing is not for them, and try to take matters into their own hands. Spoiler alert: it doesn’t work out. And then, finally, a son is born, when God decides it’s time. God not only promised them a son, but that their descendants would outnumber the stars, and be a blessing to many nations. Abraham and Sarah don’t even live to see this promise come to fruition. God’s timing doesn’t always make sense to us, but it’s always perfect.

He knows how long we need to wait in order to build faith and trust in His promises. He knows when we need to be pushed out of our comfort zones and have our plan disrupted. He understands us so well that He knows what it will take for us to grow closer and more reliant on Him. He looks at our lives and sees just what needs to be removed or added. Maybe right now you are in the midst of a struggle and just wanting it to end. Perhaps you are experiencing something great and you want to get to the end goal sooner. Either way, God is along through the experience, not just at the end destination. When we’re frustrated with God’s timing we have to admit it to Him. Whatever we confess to God, He can redeem. Tell Him if you’re impatient, scared, or you feel like you don’t trust His timing. Go to His word. All throughout scripture are stories of people waiting on God’s plan, not just Abraham. Ask God to help you see what He’s doing, and to help you submit. Don’t just say it, mean it. If you don’t want to submit to God’s plan and timing, admit that too. Spend some time looking back over your life, and appreciating the times that God making you wait was for the best. Don’t long for what’s ahead, but look for God in the moment you’re in right now.

Personanting Christ

impersonate (im-për-së-nāt) v – to assume or act the character of someone else.

True confession: I’ve been ordained for 35 years and have served churches in four different countries; but there are still times when I feel I’m not really a pastor, just impersonating one. Funerals, some hospital visits, discussions with ultra-conservative Christians—these seem to demand an uncomfortable persona I must adapt which doesn’t feel natural, more like I’m just going through the motions, acting like someone else. I do this for the right reasons (at least, that’s what I tell myself), because what others expect of their pastor is important. It’s like what Paul says about eating meat sacrificed to idols; I do not want to be a stumbling block to anyone who might be of “weaker conscience.” So, in certain situations, I act according to expectations, even if it isn’t really me.
I think this is more than an occupational hazard. It might be something every Christian occasionally falls prey to: impersonating “a real Christian,” trying to fit the stereotype expected by others.
“Remember WWJD: What Would Jesus Do? Did those bracelets intimidate you as much as they did me? How could we ever be expected to do what Jesus would do?! Pretty unrealistic. When I was a kid, I had this Sunday School teacher who was always admonishing us: “Would Jesus act like that?” “If Jesus were here, would you say those words?” We were taught things would be different things if Christ was in the room. It didn’t seem like it would be a lot of fun, and we couldn’t be ourselves.
Let me suggest we should never try to impersonate Jesus. We can’t pull it off. However, we should make every effort to personate him in the world around us. Instead of trying to be someone we aren’t, we should embody Christ’s presence wherever we happen to be. Don’t try to be like Jesus. Let Jesus be in us! Paul writes, “For God who says, ‘Let light shine out of darkness,’ made his light shine in our hearts to give us the light of the glory of God in the face of Christ” [2 Corinthians 4:6]. No impersonation, no pretending required. We are exactly who we are—earthen vessels that, bearing Christ, glow with God’s all-surpassing love shining within.
I like the way Leonard Sweet puts it. “When we stop impersonating and start personating Christ, we inhabit the name we’ve inherited—‘little Christs’ (Christ-ians) sent into the world for ministry and mission, steadfast in faith, passionate in love, imperishable in hope.”
Jesus commanded us that we should see him “in the least of these”—the hungry, the thirsty, the sick, the homeless. When we do so, something absolutely wonderful occurs: those we encounter see him in us!  There’s nothing impersonating or impersonal about that at all.